Did you know that there are only 24 more shopping days until Christmas? 20 if you are Hanukkah shopping. Didja? Didja? Didja?
Oh yes, it is that time of year again. What am I saying? Its been “that time of year” since October but the insanity and pressure of “Holiday Shopping” has and will only get worse. I’ve been grateful for the past 3 years NOT to have cable service because I was spared the incessant jingles, scare tactics and pressure to buy, Buy, BUY! However, I am noticing something as a childless adult…I’m not feeling the pressure, only the disgust at our completely commercialised western culture.
Want her love? Remember what kiss begins with or what store to shop in to make the burly football player smile.
Want to make him cheer? Buy tools or a red metal toolbox.
Want the kids to be happy? Buy one of a zillion and a half toys. Better yet, buy lots.
Despite the ABC World News push to have a “Made in America” holiday, ITS STILL ABOUT BUYING! Now, I am in favor of creating jobs as much as the next person but really, I would rather save my money entirely, have a handmade holiday or give a family gift.
Here is my plan for a revolutionary holiday:
A) If you feel like you MUST shop:
#1: Before you shop for anything, purge your closets. Go thru and clean out the clothes you don’t wear, the toys your kids don’t play with and the ‘things’ that you have around that are just gathering dust. Give away to your local charity shop.
#2: Make a list of your NEEDS. Do you/your partner/the kids in your life NEED a new winter coat? How about boots? How about underwear or socks? How about diapers? How about crayons or paper? Parents, be honest, wouldn’t you rather your kid have new socks or snow boots that they can actually USE or a beeping, flashing, noisy toy that will drive you batty and run on hellishly expensive batteries? I thought so.
#3: Make a list of your WANTS. For me, I REALLY WANT a kitchen aid mixer, like really, really badly. Mike really, really wants an Xbox with Kinect. Keep it simple and keep it to the “Really, Really” wants.
#4: Make a list of your likes. Do you like yarn, non-food or floral scents and the colour blue and red? How about yellows and greens, fruity smells and hair products? War games? Chocolate? Car toys? Bicycles? Horses? BE SPECIFIC!!! You can also make a very specific dislikes list but its easier to shop for someone when you know what they really like.
#5: Share those lists with your family.
#6: Buy accordingly. Needs come first, then wants. Consider buying only gifts that can be for the whole family instead of person specific. The mixer will provide hours of kitchen fun and the Xbox hours of playing together. We both win.
#7: Go volunteer for at least 1 hour for every ‘thing’ you buy. Trust me, if you have time to battle the stores or search the ‘net for the best deals, you have time to help someone in need.
B) If you feel crafty:
#1: Make nearly identical gifts for everyone. I still think that the best year of my giving was when I made stained glass angels for everyone. Using scraps and leftovers from my Mums projects, I changed the colour of the dresses, made some look left, others look right but made a bunch for family and friends.
#2 Knit/Make slippers. Everyone needs slippers and wearing them in the house cuts down on the vacuuming. Win-Win for everyone!
#3 Recycle containers and fill with other goodies. I know I plan to make snowmen like Kristy did and fill them with mint hot chocolate or russian tea.
#4 Should time run out, give IOU’s! Adults understand this more than kids so try your best to complete the kids gifts first.
#1: Give of your time and skills. Not only am I advocating volunteering but also giving of yourself to your family. Offer to babysit the niece/nephew(s) while the parents go out. Offer to do the laundry while your partner has some alone time. Offer to make their favourite snack during Sunday football. Give coupons and follow thru and all will be happy.
#2: Give to your favourite charity. Heifer International is mine and, like always, I am giving a Knitters Gift Basket to a needy family in honour of my Nana. What better way to share the holiday season than giving to people who are in true need?
D) Create traditions NOT around gifts.
Mike and I are really looking forward to having a feast like we did last year:
What are your non-commercial holiday ideas?